From ‘The Healing Show’ series #2: Healing Emotional Childhood Memories
EPISODE #6: Be Guarded With Your Parents
This message is about being aware of the patterns your parents have taught you and how they (or your guardians) will never fail to remind you of them.
Patterns include the kind of reactions they’ve instilled in you because you have been made to feel, by them, that you’re to blame, that you have to fix, that you have to accommodate, that you have to justify, that you have to put up with, etc.
Being on guard with your parents mean, that when you’re interacting with them, know they will try to pull you into feeling guilty, for example, and be prepared for this.