Feel supported… Heal… Be happier!
Intuitive Counselling and Kinesiology Sessions for Women!
BENITA FRENCH is a relationship expert and also specializes in healing pain from your childhood. Her clients are women looking to feel understood, believed in and supported with regards to their emotional state, relationship desires, and related demands. Benita offers unprecedented support so that the feelings of possibility, openness and peace achieved within your session can continue to expand into your life.
Appointments available via Phone 0419 147 036, Skype or In-Person (Eltham, Melbourne)
Restore Your Feminine Spirit
BENITA’S CONSULTATIONS involve an Intuitive Reading and Counselling segment, to explore your situation and identify areas of stress or pain, followed by a Kinesiology healing to help remove the negative energy from your mind, heart, and body.
“Guaranteed: you will feel lighter, clearer and happier by the end of your session.”
Most of Benita’s clients book on a regular basis and have had a reading or some kind of natural therapy before. No one listens to you like Benita! Together you will unlock and correct ALL the negative patterns in your life.
Benita was a child healing prodigy and while she had an uncanny knack for healing others
something inside her was broken…
Benita’s Story and why she is committed to helping you…
“From 6 years old, energy healing and psychic intuition became my way of life.
While every other child around me enjoyed friendships and the pop culture of the 80’s and 90’s, I was sacrificing those formative years for the healing work I was doing.
I also experienced a lot of trauma in the form of emotional neglect. My parents were always fighting (verbally) from the very beginning which started a pattern of anger and sadness within me.
As a child and teenager, I somehow ended up counselling them through their marital problems and playing spiritual healer to their physical ailments and of the extended family and family friends around me. When I needed support it was never there.
When I was 11 years old I saw my best friend from primary school killed on the same road where we lived. I never received any of the parental support or attention that a trauma like that deserves and instances like that just repeated all through primary school.
I virtually had no friends through high school and would generally return home to observe my parents constantly prioritizing the needs of my relatives over me. Even though I helped them with my intuitive and healing abilities, I never felt important. I was treated with the attitude of “Benita will be OK, she can cope by herself”. But I wasn’t coping. On top of everything else, my parents would constantly threaten to break up and I was constantly living with the anxiety of ‘would it really happen this time’. By the time they did separate when I was 19 years old, I was fully relieved. I didn’t realize it then, but I had already copied all the disrespect and chaos I learned from my family, into my relationships, my life, and the choices therein.
“I copied all the disrespect and chaos I learned from my family, into my relationships”
In my romantic relationships, I was emotionally neglected and psychologically abused in every way and on every level known to a woman. I was tricked into thinking that I had something wrong with me and that I alone was responsible for all the problems that we had. I put in endless effort, I was stressed to the max and was forever anxious. I received almost no support from one parent while the other parent took ‘his’ side. The lack of support from my parents turned to betrayal and happiness seemed as elusive as ever. Luckily, my cat was there to love and comfort me. I would NEVER have survived without her!
“He”, whomever I attracted at the time, never wanted to talk about our problems, he never had empathy for my experience and he wanted his way all the time. I was dragged out of the house, I was shut out with silence, manipulated with mind games and a withdrawal of intimacy when I didn’t cooperate with his selfish and controlling ways. I didn’t feel valued and I never received an apology. I could never tell anybody the full story because either nobody cared enough, nobody understood enough or I felt too ashamed of the whole situation. I was barely making ends meet. I was struggling to keep my Kinesiology Melbourne business running and I was living and working alone at home. It felt like I was living on a remote, forgotten island in terms of how isolated I felt.
MY LIFE TURNED AROUND when I started working on the realization I had about copying and pasting my childhood conditioning patterns into all my relationships. I extensively worked through all my childhood pains and self-healed the trauma through a daily routine of study, healing, meditation and positive affirmation.
My specific routine of childhood healing combined with my professional training in Psychology and Kinesiology began clearing my path for something truly amazing.
After about 20 years of generally unsupportive men, I attracted a beautiful man into my life. He was a brand new pattern! He understood, nurtured and supported me in every way that I felt could exist. I thought it was absolutely impossible to have somebody fulfill my extremely long list of complex emotional, creative and spiritual criteria for a relationship, especially as I had my self-esteem knocked hard to the ground.
Much to my amazement ‘THE ONE’ did exist. I grew happier. I grew into who I really was because of the constant respect and belief from my new partner. His devoted love and stable support helped me remember what I had almost forgotten about myself: that I was worth it!
After 41 years, the pattern of sadness virtually ended. The positive support I received began to transform decades of negative voices in my head. Feelings of “can’t” became; “you can be happy”, “you can be successful”. I began passing the profound new consciousness I felt on to all my Kinesiology Melbourne clients. In turn, my business improved and more clients started coming on a weekly basis. With text, email and phone support between their session, they too began to experience profound improvements to all their relationships.
I desperately want to help every woman I can, heal from the past and find complete happiness, as I did. This process begins – With The RIGHT Support!”
With an exclusively female client base and 30+ years of professional experience healing women and their relationships, Benita now combines her background in Behavioral Science and Psychology with Intuitive Counselling, Kinesiology and multiple psychic readings into a unique phone or in-person session specifically for women.
INTUITIVE COUNSELLING – Who Is Listening To You?
- No one listens to you like Benita!
- This is your time to truly unload.
- You never have to worry if Benita is thinking that you are talking too much. She thinks this is a good thing!
- Benita is not going to criticise or judge you.
- You never have to worry if Benita can handle what you’re saying. She always can, no matter what the subject.
- Even if you feel your thoughts are fantasy or unrealistic, Benita wont think you’re stupid.
- You never have to worry if Benita is on your side. She always is.
- This is an appointment with YOUR SELF!
- Benita will take a detailed, confidential account of your life experience and the issues you’re coming to address.
MULTIPLE INTUITIVE READINGS – Why Are Things Happening?
- Benita will receive feedback from your body using Kinesiology muscle testing.
- Benita will look at your Numerology Birth Numbers and those of significant others around you to help you understand yourself and others better.
- Benita will look at your Tarot cards to explore the presence and possibility of certain issues and goals in your life.
- Benita will ask about the dreams you’ve been having and interpret those dream messages.
- Benita’s guidance is channeled through her Angels and Spirit Guides. You have the support of many beings within your session.
ENERGY HEALING – Create A Better Life!
- Benita will hold points on your hands, arms, feet, legs, torso, back and head to help open the way for healing.
- She will rub certain muscles and parts of the spine to remove negative beliefs and stress.
- Benita will use essential oils, crystals, tuning forks and LOTS of breath work to shift your consciousness into a better state.
- She provides a guided meditation to help you (after you leave) to connect with the positive energy changes you achieved in your session.
- Benita’s healing is instructed by her angels and guides. They help her, she helps you.
- For a phone session, this is performed as a distance healing using projected visualizations and light.
- For an in-person session, this is performed on the healing table.
BENITA’S ENERGY – Who Is Healing You?
- Benita offers you the CLEANEST energy available for healing sessions.
- Benita has no caffeine, no alcohol, no nicotine or other drugs in her diet.
- Benita eats a purely plant-based diet.
- Benita drinks natural spring water.
- Benita follows a daily meditation and healing routine.
- Benita is in a happy, committed relationship.
“I call Benita regularly. Since I’ve been calling her, I feel I’ve grown a lot. I feel mentally different and I’ve realized that I don’t have to put up with bad behaviour. I feel empowered: I never thought I’d use that word!”
“When the world spins for me from time to time, Benita’s non-judgmental attitude, clarity, reassurance and constantly relevant advice, provides me with a positive framework for life’s decisions. I trust her. Most importantly, Benita helps me believe that I can achieve what I strive for in life.”
I really like calling Benita, she’s just a miracle worker, I feel so blessed to have found her. I don’t know how I would have coped without the sessions. Buried issues emerge out of nowhere. I’m left with a sense of lightness.”
Thank you Benita for your wonderful support and your helpful service. I’m grateful for your wisdom on my life’s journey. Keep helping people because you’re good at it!”
“Benita gave me the most amazing insight for where I’m at.”